4 Magical Ways To Build Self Confidence

You have probably noticed those people at work, school, and in your daily life that always appear to be self confident and on top of world.
Everything seems to go right for these people and they always seem to present themselves as calm, collected and successful in everything they do.
If you are paying attention you have probably noticed that these self confident people usually are successful in every area of their lives.
Is this because they are smarter? Or is it because they have more money? Maybe they are just lucky?
The reality is that none of these things are necessarily true. Self confident people understand the impact of believing in themselves and relying on their abilities.
This confidence ultimately creates opportunities for success and with each new success another self confidence building block is put into place. Success builds upon success reinforcing self confidence with each new achievement.
Self confident people perceive themselves as able to achieve those things they set out to do and this perception creates reality in their lives.
Yes, perception creates reality. You can become the person you want to be. You have heard it said that if you can believe it you can achieve it.
So start believing in yourself, acting on that belief and you will start building self confidence in your life.
Here are some helpful tips to build self confidence one success at a time.
1. Make a list of your strong points.
All the positive things about yourself and the things that you are good at doing. Think of compliments you have received or things that come easily to you. It doesn't matter what it is, if it's good, write it down.
2. Choose two of those things that you want to work on to improve even more.
It's important to succeed and by concentrating on the areas you are already good at you will have a better chance of becoming even more sure of yourself. Remember that success builds upon success.
3. Exude confidence even if you don't feel like it.
Talk to yourself in an encouraging way and stay away from negative thoughts and people as you can.
Instead surround yourself with positive, confident, and successful people. This will become a habit and one that will build confidence.
4. Look at yourself in a different way than you are used to doing.
It can change your life and help your confidence level to rise. See yourself as the self confident person you want to be and before you know it you will become that person.
If you have a set-back do not let it get the best of you. Remember the times when you exhibited self confidence and how good it felt and then try again and each time will help you to build confidence and confidence building will become a way of life.

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ASHWANI SUHALKA (PGDM 3rd Sem )

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9. Get a more positive outlook on life - Stop being so negative and bringing more failure onto yourself. You have to get a more positive attitude and start seeing the good things that life has to offer. Spend less time worrying and more time doing, action is what makes this world go round and is what gets things done.

(ABHISHEK RAI)

PGDM- First sem

4. Improve your dress code - The way you dress can really put you in a better mood. Don’t dress yourself like a rag doll, because it will make you feel like one. If you know of someone who is classy, then why not try and imitate them. You don’t have to go buying brand name clothes, but look around and start trying to improve your dress style.

Look for ways that will make you feel better. Walk with your head high and feel confident about yourself. Don’t put down yourself, and don’t let others put you down.

One thing I hate to see is people wearing their grandparents shoes. If that is you, get with the program. Buy yourself at least two pairs of dress shoes, and start adding a pair every couple of months. If things is tight then just buy one pair, but change it once it is worn. No need to wear them until the soles has wholes.

( ABHISHEK RAI)-PGDM 1-SEM

3. Put a smile on your face - There are two ways to go about this, one is to have a normal face without the smile (that is the trustworthy face) or a smiley face. Do you know someone who has such a face? I do, and these people are always happy. It just goes to show that a smile on your face can change your mood. So picture great things and keep yourself in a good mood.

Art of Living - Service and Selfishness

Art of Living - Service and Selfishness

Man with out emotions is like a fruit without juice. You need to make your life interesting inorder to make people to be and move with you. So nurture yourself with music, prayer and services.

The way to go from the state of individualness to universal conseiousness, is to share in, the others sorrow and joy. Get rid of selfishness with in you. When you expand in knowledge with time, then you are free from depression. The way to overcome personal misery is to share it with universal misery.

Instead of thinking” what about myself?” think about “what can I do for this world? “.

Silence heals, rejuvenates and gives you stability and brings creativity.

Service leads to the dynamic experience of leadership. Lack of service motto leads the person to depression.

Pain is in inevitable with its physical nature. But suffering is optional and mental. If you are not sensitive to others’ pain, then you are not a human being.

Service also can bring contentment in life.

7 common mistakes in our personality

7 common mistakes in our personality

Successful people learn from their mistakes and mould them as stepping stones to achieve success in life. Experience is the greatest master in life. One can gain experience from failures only which occur due to mistakes.

7 Common mistakes in our Personality:

1. The delusion: The individual’s advancement should be made by crushing down the others. But it is a wrong notion.

2. The tendency to worry unnecessarily about the things that can’t be changed or corrected. We can‘t make the dog’s tail straight.

3. Unnecessary arguments: Insisting that a thing is impossible, because we ourselves cannot accomplish it. Nothing is impossible in this world.

4. Short sighted look: Refusing to set aside trivial things, so that important things may be accomplished.

5. Mentality of ‘’I know everything’’: They are of the habit of neglecting development and refinement of the mind and not acquiring the habit of reading and study.

6. Attempting to compel others to do those things which they do not like to do.

7. Interfering in others affairs: It is a bad habit to put our fingers in other people’s personal affairs, without their formal request.