Thursday, December 3, 2009
Presentation Skills Program
We analyze the problem and develop a program that can
consider the needs and expertise level of the audience
create a strategic approach to increase audience receptivity
demonstrate enthusiasm with natural gestures
use powerful words and strong visual images
anticipate questions and manage resistance
improve language, rhythm, and clarity
reduce accent and improve modulation and expression
Presenters gain an understanding of the interactive nature of presentations, and become effective communicators, comfortable in front of an audience.
Communication Skills
The fact, is that apart from the basic necessities, one needs to be equipped with habits for good communication skills, as this is what will make them a happy and successful social being. In order to develop these habits, one needs to first acknowledge the fact that they need to improve communication skills from time to time. They need to take stock of the way they interact and the direction in which their work and personal relations are going. The only constant in life is change, and the more one accepts one's strengths and works towards dealing with their shortcomings, especially in the area of communication skills, the better will be their interactions and the more their social popularity.
Monday, November 30, 2009
Ten Ways to Improve Your Interpersonal Skills
Try these 10 helpful tips for improving your interpersonal skills:
Smile:- Few people want to be around someone who is always down in the dumps. Do your best to be friendly and upbeat with your coworkers. Maintain a positive, cheerful attitude about work and about life. Smile often. The positive energy you radiate will draw others to you.
Be appreciative:- Find one positive thing about everyone you work with and let them hear it. Be generous with praise and kind words of encouragement. Say thank you when someone helps you. Make colleagues feel welcome when they call or stop by your office. If you let others know that they are appreciated, they’ll want to give you their best.
Pay attention to others:-Observe what’s going on in other people’s lives. Acknowledge their happy milestones, and express concern and sympathy for difficult situations such as an illness or death. Make eye contact and address people by their first names. Ask others for their opinions.
Practice active listening:- To actively listen is to demonstrate that you intend to hear and understand another’s point of view. It means restating, in your own words, what the other person has said:- In this way, you know that you understood their meaning and they know that your responses are more than lip service. Your coworkers will appreciate knowing that you really do listen to what they have to say.
Bring people together:- Create an environment that encourages others to work together. Treat everyone equally, and don't play favorites. Avoid talking about others behind their backs. Follow up on other people's suggestions or requests. When you make a statement or announcement, check to see that you have been understood. If folks see you as someone solid and fair, they will grow to trust you.
Resolve conflicts:- Take a step beyond simply bringing people together, and become someone who resolves conflicts when they arise. Learn how to be an effective mediator. If coworkers bicker over personal or professional disagreements, arrange to sit down with both parties and help sort out their differences. By taking on such a leadership role, you will garner respect and admiration from those around you.
Communicate clearly. Pay close attention to both what you say and how you say it. A clear and effective communicator avoids misunderstandings with coworkers, collegues, and associates. Verbal eloquence projects an image of intelligence and maturity, no matter what your age. If you tend to blurt out anything that comes to mind, people won’t put much weight on your words or opinions.
Humor them:- Don’t be afraid to be funny or clever. Most people are drawn to a person that can make them laugh. Use your sense of humor as an effective tool to lower barriers and gain people’s affection.
See it from their side:- Empathy means being able to put yourself in someone else’s shoes and understand how they feel. Try to view situations and responses from another person’s perspective. This can be accomplished through staying in touch with your own emotions; those who are cut off from their own feelings are often unable to empathize with others.
Don't complain:- There is nothing worse than a chronic complainer or whiner. If you simply have to vent about something, save it for your diary. If you must verbalize your grievances, vent to your personal friends and family, and keep it short. Spare those around you, or else you’ll get a bad reputation.
Resources For Keeping Your Tech Skills Current:-
1. A2Z CollegesA2Z Colleges is a handy search site for undergraduate and graduate university information. Search by major or by geography. Useful information here as well on financing your education.
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2. Top Schools for EngineeringThe US News top Engineering Schools is a well respected resource in the industry. Employers and Recruiting Firms use this list as a target for campus recruiting. The abbreviated version, available for free, simply lists the top schools. Pay a small fee to get all of the statistics on each school's performance.
3. Distance Learning OptionsE-Learning, or distance learning, is a hot topic in education. These are courses and sometimes entire degree programs that you can take from the comfort of your living room. US News has put together a bunch of handy information on the topic.
4. Top MBAInternational resource site for the top Masters of Business Administration (MBA) programs. Lots of great information here about admissions and tests as well.
5. Microsoft Certifications GuideMicrosoft offers a set of very "hot" certifications. They offer excellent programs in a variety of technical professions(developers, administrators, business managers, educatiors and more). Learn more about Microsoft from their Company Profile.
6. Cisco CertificationsIf you are interested in the world of networking, a Cisco certification is "the" certification to have. Learn directly from the world leaders in networking.
7. Oracle CertificationsOracle Corporation, the world leader in database systems, offers several certification programs for database professionals. Also offers certifications for eBusiness professionals and other business functions related to technology. Learn more about Oracle Corporation from their company profile.
8. Sun Java CertificationsIf you are interested in the world of java development, this is a great certification to have. Sun Microsystems is the creator of java, and offers courses directly.
9. Electrical Engineering CertificationsEarn distinction in the electrical engineering field. This is a great resource explaining the different electrical engineering certifications.
Tuesday, November 24, 2009
1. Accept Responsibility :
The price of grateness is the responsibility – Winston Churchill
“Responsibility gravitates to the person who can shoulder them.”
-- Elbert Hubbard
Society is not destroyed by the activities of the rascals, but by the inactivity of good people.
2. Show consideration :
Show consideration, courtesy, politeness and caring.
3. Choose your words carefully: The principle is your speaking must be better than silent, rather be silent.Words spoken out of bitterness can cause irreparable damage. The way the parents speak to their children in many instances shapes their children’s destiny.
4. Smile and Be Kind :
Smile is the shortest distance between two people.
5. Put Positive interpretation on other people’s behavior:
We see the world not as it is, but as we are.So when we are interpreting other peoples behavior negatively we just reflecting our own mentality to this situation. In contrast when interpret positively, chances that other people may realize its negativity and change or amend this.
6. Be a Good Listener :
Effective communication is 50% listening, 25% speaking, 15% reading and 10% writing. So when we listen carefully then 50% communication is done.
7. Give honest and Sincere Appreciation :
The desire to feel important is one of the gratest craving in most of the human beings and it can be a great motivator. Honest and sincere appreciation makes one feel important and promote these positive qualities in him. In contrast giving false and insincere appreciation is flattery or sycophancy which in the long run is harmful to the receipient.
8. When you make a mistake, accept it and make it easy to amend:
Mistakes are to be learned from. So accept it immediately and make change or amend easy.
9. Discuss but don’t argue:
Arguing is like fighting a losing battle. Even if one wins in the argument, the cost may be more than the worth of victory.An Ignominious victory is a defeat itself.
10. Don’t Gossip:
Gossip may lead to slander and defamation of character. People who listen to gossip are as guilty as those who do the gossiping.
11. Turn your promises into commitment: Commitment leads to enduring relationship through thick and thin. It shows in a person's personality and relationship.
12. Be dependable and practice loyalty:
An ounce of loyalty is worth more than a pound of cleverness.Ability without dependability is of no worth.
13. Avoid bearing grudges:
Life is too small to bear grudges.
John Kennedy once said “forgive the other person but don’t forget their name.” Means “if one cheated me once it is his fault, but if cheats me twice then it is my fault.”
14. Practice honesty, Integrity and Sincerity:Lies may have speed, but the truth has endurance.Honesty, Integrity and Sincerity have more enduring effect than the opposite.
15. Practice Humility: Don’t be cheated regularly to forgive.
Confidence without humility is arrogance. Sincere Humility is the foundation of all virtues. It is a sign of greatness.
16. Be understanding and Caring :
The best way to be understood is to be understanding. And the basis of real communication is also understanding.
17. Develop a sense of humor:
Have a sense of humor and you will possess the ability to laugh at yourself. A sense of humor makes a person likeable and attractive. Some people are humor-impaired.
18. To have a friend be a Friend :
Mutual trust and confidence are the foundation stones of all friendship.
19. Show Empathy :
Empathy alone is a very important characteristic of positive personality. People with empathy ask themselves this question, “how would I feel if someone treated me that way?”
Monday, November 23, 2009
Soft Skills
- influencing
- communication
- team management
- delegating
- appraising
- presenting
- motivating
is now recognised as key to making businesses more profitable and better places to work.
Increasingly, companies aren't just assessing their current staff and future recruits on their business skills.
They are now assessing them on a whole host of soft skill competencies around how well they relate and communicate to others.
We now find it a bit shocking and somewhat disturbing when someone displays the old autocratic style of bullying management tactics (though we know it is still unfortunately far more prevalent than is desirable).
Many companies simply will now no longer put up with it (bravo!).
Measuring these soft skills is no easy thing.
But in the most progressive companies, managers are looking for people's ability to communicate clearly and openly, and to listen and respond empathetically.
They also want them to have equally well-honed written skills so that their correspondence (including emails) doesn't undo all the good work their face-to-face communication creates.
Good soft skills also include the ability of people to balance the commercial needs of their company with the individual needs of their staff.
Being flexible and able to adapt to the changing needs of an organisation also qualify as soft skills, as do being able to collaborate with others and influence situations through lateral and more creative thinking.
The ability to deal with differences, multiculturalism and diversity is needed more than ever.
Very few companies are untouched by the ever-widening influence of other cultures and good soft skills facilitate better communication and people's ability to manage differences effectively.
Everyone already has some form of soft skills (probably a lot more than they realise)
They just need to look at areas in their personal life where they get on with others, feel confident in the way they interact, can problem solve, are good at encouraging, can schmooze with the best of them.
All these skills are soft and all of them are transferable to the workplace.
Not only that, the best news of all is that soft skills can be developed and honed on an on-going basis through good training, insightful reading, observation and of course, practise, practise, practise.
Soft Skills
- influencing
- communication
- team management
- delegating
- appraising
- presenting
- motivating
is now recognised as key to making businesses more profitable and better places to work.
Increasingly, companies aren't just assessing their current staff and future recruits on their business skills.
They are now assessing them on a whole host of soft skill competencies around how well they relate and communicate to others.
We now find it a bit shocking and somewhat disturbing when someone displays the old autocratic style of bullying management tactics (though we know it is still unfortunately far more prevalent than is desirable).
Many companies simply will now no longer put up with it (bravo!).
Measuring these soft skills is no easy thing.
But in the most progressive companies, managers are looking for people's ability to communicate clearly and openly, and to listen and respond empathetically.
They also want them to have equally well-honed written skills so that their correspondence (including emails) doesn't undo all the good work their face-to-face communication creates.
Good soft skills also include the ability of people to balance the commercial needs of their company with the individual needs of their staff.
Being flexible and able to adapt to the changing needs of an organisation also qualify as soft skills, as do being able to collaborate with others and influence situations through lateral and more creative thinking.
The ability to deal with differences, multiculturalism and diversity is needed more than ever.
Very few companies are untouched by the ever-widening influence of other cultures and good soft skills facilitate better communication and people's ability to manage differences effectively.
Everyone already has some form of soft skills (probably a lot more than they realise)
They just need to look at areas in their personal life where they get on with others, feel confident in the way they interact, can problem solve, are good at encouraging, can schmooze with the best of them.
All these skills are soft and all of them are transferable to the workplace.
Not only that, the best news of all is that soft skills can be developed and honed on an on-going basis through good training, insightful reading, observation and of course, practise, practise, practise.
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
IF YOU WANT TO CURLY LOCKS :-
First of all, there's good news for curly heads. Ringlets are back with a rage. So instead of burning out your hair with frustrating attempts to straighten it, here's what you can do to control those curls.
Curl Care :-
Getting curly hair to behave begins in the shower. Wash your hair every third day. On days you are not washing your hair, wet it and apply conditioner. Don't wash your hair everyday if you have curly hair, even if you are using a mild shampoo that claims it is suitable enough for daily use. Of all hair types, curly hair is the driest and most brittle.
Always follow up with a conditioner. Concentrate conditioner on ends, which are the most dry, and rinse out. Towel dry hair and apply a leave-in conditioner. If you don't have any, moisturising lotion is a good substitute! It keeps the frizz at bay and controls the curls. You could also apply a couple of drops of oil to your hair when wet. Remember, when towel drying frizzy hair, pat it down, don't
ruffle it.
For a quick fix for damaged, weak, dull or dry hair, work in a good healthy dose of conditioner on wet hair and expose it to steam for 15 minutes. Then lightly shampoo and rinse.
Curly heads need to apply more styling products, conditioners and oils to control their mane. This leads to build up. Once a month mix an equal amount of baking soda with your shampoo and wash your hair. This removes build up and residue and leaves your hair squeaky clean.
Comb your hair with a wide toothed comb when it's damp and not dripping wet as wet hair breaks easily, especially if it is tangled. Apply a good conditioner and using a wide tooth comb start from the ends. Take as much time as is necessary to avoid stretching or breaking your hair. Never comb curly hair when it is dry and never, ever brush your curls. They'll just open up into frizzes.
When blow drying your hair, use a diffuser attachment. Don't dry it completely; leave it slightly damp or you run the risk of over-drying your hair.
Perfecting the Curl :-
If you're letting your hair dry naturally, try this: Apply gel or leave-in conditioner to towel dried hair and create curls by twisting locks of hair around your fingers or by scrunching your hair. Or twist sections and clip them up with butterfly clips. Once dry, take them down. Loosen the curls with your fingers.
Wash your hair at night, apply gel or mousse and braid it. The next morning, open out your braids and finger comb your hair for lovely, natural curls.
Fed up with hair that zooms out at the sides as if you've been electrocuted? Pull your hair taut and secure it into a ponytail when it's drying. This way your hair will tend to fall down instead of spreading out.
Frizz Busters :-
If you tie up your hair in a silk, satin or velvet scarf at night, it will kill some of the frizz.
If you catch a case of the frizzies, simply wet your hair. Your mane needs to be kept megamoisturised to fight frizz.
So there you have it. In a world of people with flat, limpy hair that just hangs down, your curls set you apart. Just one out of twenty have curly hair, so count yourself lucky and chuck those straightening irons where they belong. In the bin.
HAIR CARE :-
Before stepping into the shower, comb your hair lightly with a wide-toothed comb to untangle knots. This aligns the strands and prevents your getting out of the shower with a lot of knots. Begin at the ends and slowly work your way up. Never try to rip through tangles from top to bottom. You'll end up with a clump of hair on your comb that could have been avoided if only you'd had some patience!
Water
The temperature of the water you use while washing your hair should ideally not be warmer than room temperature. In fact, the best thing would be to use the lowest temperature you can bear. Too cold for you? Well, hair is not sensitive, so you could at least bend over and give the lower part of your hair a final rinse with cold water.
Why cold water?
Because cold water helps the hair scales lie down flat, making them stronger. On the other hand warm water opens the hair scales not only causing more frizz but also making the hair shaft weaker and more vulnerable. In addition, the scalp secretes certain oils that are good for the hair. These oils get dissolved in warm water, causing further dryness. Cold water does not dissolve the natural oils. So make the healthy-hair choice and go in for cold water! Brrrrr
Shampooing your hair
Start washing your hair at the scalp, because that's where grease accumulates. Gently massage the shampoo into your hair with your fingertips. It is a good idea to dilute the shampoo in a little water in a mug and then massage it on your scalp. This way the shampoo is even gentler on the hair.
- While applying shampoo to your locks, leave them hanging down instead of piling them on top of your head as though you're posing for a shampoo commercial. Piling up your hair only leads to more tangles. Let it hang naturally so the lather works its way from the root to the ends.
- Try not to churn your hair too much. Work the shampoo gently so the strands don't get untangled and result in unbearable knots. If you have long hair, apply shampoo to your scalp, divide it into sections, and massage each section gently with the shampoo from roots to ends.
Go gentle while rinsing
- The best way to wash out shampoo is to keep combing it with your wide toothed comb while rinsing it out under the shower. This helps in the de-tangling process and also helps the shampoo to rinse out better. While you rinse your hair, do not rub it harshly. Hair is at its most fragile state when it's being rinsed. The correct way is to just simply let water run down your hair.
- Remember, it's best to rinse hair under running water. Dunking it in a tub is not so effective as residue may still remain. You have to make sure you've rinsed out all the shampoo. Once you are fairly certain it's all gone, stay under the flow of water for another half minute or so, to be doubly sure. Wrap your hair in a soft,absorbent towel - and voila! You're done!
Learning Styles and Personality
Another area of controversy is in regard to what the different learning styles are or what they should be called. There is no currently existing overall, holistic theory of learning styles; rather there are bits and pieces. In fact, what some call learning styles, others have labeled as cognitive controls, cognitive styles, or personality. For the sake of simplicity, we will use the term "learning styles."
If we assume that individual learning styles do exist and can be measured, there is disagreement about what the instructor should do about it!
Personality Styles
If you've found that you mesh well with certain personality styles, but just can't seem to get along with others, DISC behavioral profiling may hold the answers. DISC testing holds that there are four basic behavioral styles: Dominant, Interactive, Steady and Compliant. Every individual has a dominant style, which colors his interactions with everyone he meets.
!When two people have opposing or very different styles, they might not have the kind of instant rapport that compatible people share. For example, the characteristics of a Dominant personality include a tendency to be forthright and open with others. A Compliant person, on the other hand, is often indirect and closed-off, secretive or private. Thus, a Compliant personality might view a Dominant person as threatening or imposing, while a Dominant person might view a Compliant one as evasive and passive.
Monday, November 16, 2009
MAJOR REQUIREMENTS TOWARD THE DEVELOPMENT OF PERSONALITY
1) KINDNESS
2) CLEANLINESS OF BOTH MIND AND BODY
3) UNSELFISHNESS
4) GOOD DISPOSITION
5) OBEDIENCE TO IDEALS AND PRINCIPLES
6) HONESTY IN ALL THINGS
7) TRUTHFULNESS 8) LOYALTY
9) GOOD HEALTH
CONCEPT OF PERSONALITY STYLE :-
You have probably been using at least some of the principles of personality style without knowing it. But we’ll begin with the basics:
Style develops over time.
Style is described in validated models.
Style explains some personal differences.
Every style has strengths and weaknesses.
Thursday, November 12, 2009
Three basic approaches to learning styles
The second approach is to identify a person's preferred style and then to give instruction aimed toward the opposite preference in order to strengthen that student's weaknesses. There is considerable controversy involving this method. Use it with caution!
The third approach does not even attempt to identify an individual's style, but rather uses different instructional methods and media in the overall course design. This approach represents an attempt to reach all learners and assumes that every student will find something in the course that appeals to him or her. The goal of this "one size fits all" method is to have all learners achieve a set of predefined instructional objectives. The important thing is to include as many different methods as is possible and practical. The assumption is that if a learning activity doesn't fit that person's natural style, the person is experienced enough to be able to compensate.
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Life Skills & Personality Improvement Guide
Everybody thinks Experience is Life and decides to Live without creating the path to lead a Successful Life. Is it possible for anyone to be a pilot and start the plane without learning it? Is it possible by living near Airport for many years as the qualification to become pilot without practically learning it? Holistic Life skills is must for all age groups. If one learns and apply with the help of life guide, can see a huge change in their personality which is an ultimate trump card to decide Our Life.
‘It is not what we think is right but what in real terms is’
PERSONAL QUALITIES
Having and making good use of common sense.
Being able to make up your mind and make a choice.
Being able to improvise.
Being able to live with yourself.
Being adaptable to the situation; to make a good thing out of a bad thing.
Remaining cool, calm, and collected.
Hoping for the best, but preparing for the worst.
Have patience.
Being prepared to meet the worst that can happen.
Being able to "figure out" other people; to understand and predict what other people will do.
Understanding where your special fears and worries come from and know what to do to control them.
Being aware and understand yourself and the environment.
Being response-able for actions and non-actions.